When your man is getting ready to go down on you, perhaps right when he’s nestled in between your thighs, reach down and give his neck and head a quick massage. It could be a simple gesture to let him know that you appreciate his skills. You could also whip this trick out when he’s doing something you really enjoy down there. Or you could try running your hands through his hair while he’s working his magic. Most fellows I know are big fans of this move. But it’s not always the same for we ladies; quite a few women I know despise having their heads touched while they’re giving oral sex.