1- Talk it out. Communication is endlessly important in intimate relationships. Chatting with your partner about your bedroom desires (and reservations) will help you two connect and understand each other.
2- Have an open mind. Trying new things is a fun way to let loose. Is there a wild movie sex scene he’s always wanted to reenact? Or maybe there’s a hot new sex product you’re curious about? Give it a whirl—you might be surprised how empowering the new experience turns out to be. A caveat: if you feel very strongly about not doing something, don’t.
3- Figure out what turns you on. Reading erotic fiction, watching bawdy shows and movies, masturbating, taking a warm bath, taking a warm bath while masturbating. They’re all fine ways to relax and get yourself in the mood. When you understand what titillates you (and what doesn’t), you’ll feel much more in touch with your sexual side.
4- Practice, practice, practice. Want to try something (dirty talk, perhaps?) but feel awkward about it? Practice it in your head (or in front of the mirror) while imagining how hot and bothered he’ll get about it.
5- Own your hotness. Chances are, your fellow is thanking his lucky stars that he gets to see you naked. And the fun stuff you two do while in the nude? Well that’s just gravy. Realizing how much you’re driving him wild (by just being your sexy self) will make you feel way more comfortable in the sack.
6- Remember to let loose and have a laugh. All sorts of silly things go down in the bedroom so be sure to embrace the fun and go with it. It worked for this reader!
