No matter what kind of relationship you’re in, from casual to coupled up, you don’t have to feel guilty if...
...now and then, you’re just not in the mood
Stress, fatigue, cramps—it’s not ALWAYS sex o’clock. Your libido is a very sensitive thing, and it usually has a mind of its own. So don’t beat yourself up if you occasionally prefer to hit the hay, instead of roll in it. Your guy might feel this way too from time to time. Remind yourself (and him) that it’s a two-way street
....you occasionally check out other guys
When you find love, you don’t automatically stop using your eyes. Hotties will cross your path and yes, it’s OK to take a look. Obviously, it’s unwise to flirt up a storm, but HELLO, you don’t have a blindfold on. Cut your guy some slack, too. Do you really expect him not to notice if a Gisele look-alike walks by? It's just a glance, not a sign that he loves you any less.
...sometimes, you just want to hang out with your girls
Your boyfriend is kind, funny, smart, sensitive—everything you could ever want in a man! But…he’s not a girlfriend. And that’s OK! Your friends are important to you, so of course you’re going to want some quality time with them. One day, your guy might hang out with you and your pals, and another time, you and your friends might have a girls-only outing. That’s a healthy balance!
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